BENNO KAISER: We all live together. We share one bed. We have three children and they are
very happy with having three parents. COMM: When Cristina and Benno exchanged wedding vows, they never expected that another woman
would end their marriage. BRIANNA KAISER: My mom and dad was with Sierra. She was our friend but now she is our wife. COMM: But 12 years on, the parents of three are getting divorced, so their new girlfriend
won’t get jealous. SIERRA KUNTZ: There is a lot of love. I never feel neglected. We all love each other very
much. I’m very in love with Cristina and I’m very in love with Benno. BENNO KAISER: We knew that being married was something that would exclude the other person
from feeling included as part of our family, so we decided that the best thing to do was
to get a divorce. I’d say within the next week the divorce should be finalised and we
will be completely free and single. Except not. SIERRA KUNTZ: Except not. COMM: The couple opened their marriage after Cristina admitted to feeling that there was
something missing in their relationship. CRISTINA KAISER: I knew I was attracted to both men and women, and I think this type
of relationship like helps me satisfy both, you know, the male attraction and the female
attraction, because I’m bisexual. COMM: Luckily, Benno was open to the idea and after a couple of failed liaisons, the
pair met Sierra at a local mall. SIERRA KUNTZ: I sold reptiles and this very beautiful woman came up to me and asked for
my number and she had just been standing there with who I thought was her husband and I thought,
‘Oh no, if I give this girl my number or get her number, this guy is going to be so
mad.” Turns out, I guess, he was really happy about it. COMM: And the benefits of polyamory also extend into the bedroom. BENNO KAISER: We have not had a night that we don’t all involve each other in some
sort of sexual activity. So I guess that’s the nicest way to put it.
SIERRA KUNTZ: Everyone’s usually involved. BENNO KAISER: We are all involved with each
other and as you can imagine it’s a threesome. So it’s, it’s good.
SIERRA KUNTZ: It’s very busy. BENNO KAISER: It’s busy. There’s a lot
of hands everywhere. COMM: After quitting her job at the exotic pet shop, Sierra now has taken on the role
of stay at home mum to the family’s three children. SIERRA KUNTZ: We have three times the love and support that, that one parent could give
and their teachers even comment on how, how happy they are.
BENNO KAISER: They are always bringing up the fact that they have two moms and one dad. ISAIAH KAISER: I have two moms to help me out with my homework, I also have two moms
to love and for them to love me too. My friends think it’s weird. They don’t understand
how my mom likes to have another mom in the house. They don’t understand. SIERRA KUNTZ: We never want our children to feel like they have to hide themselves from
us. We’re proud of who we are and we expect the same from our children. CRISTINA KAISER: Seeing them fall in love with each other has been incredible to me
and the fact that they both love me equally, it’s much better.
BENNO KAISER: We have a love that I know is going to last for our lifetime.